July 2026 to October 2026
Men 40 and more
results: 61 - 80 of 105
Introduction:
Hi, I'm Michael, originally from London, went to University in
Newcastle upon Tyne and Edinburgh, and have worked in
Australasia, the Far East, the Middle East, Africa, South America
and North of the Arctic Circle. I'm now working as an offshore
medic out of the port of IJmuiden in the Netherlands. I'd
love to hear from you particularly if you enjoy
travel, exploration, history and natural history, nature,
countryside and environment. No relationship or money
seekers and no scammers please.
Languages: English, French & Dutch
Hobbies/Interests: travel, nature/countryside/environment/outdoors and history.
Introduction:
Thanks for stopping by. I am Michael, an offshore medic,
currently working in the North Sea, between Holland England. I
have been doing this job since 2007, and have worked across
Asia, Africa, South America and Europe. I am originally from
London, and went to university in Newcastle upon Tyne and
Edinburgh. My interests include travel,
nature/countryside/environment/outdoors
and history. I would love to hear from you if you share any of
my interests, but no scammers, and no site users seeking money
or a relationship please.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading, Movies, Animated TV, Video Games
Introduction:
I received a recommendation to come here. I'll be honest - a lot that's here looks like bots or phishing attempts. I don't think that will upset anyone who is NOT a bot or a phisher because if you're smart enough to be seeking written correspondence, it seems likely you'd be a good enough judge of character to avoid the people who ask you to reach out to their e-mail or WhatsApp - provided in the ad. Anyway, if you've gotten this far, hello! Phinneous is my video game name and in no way related to anyone named "Ferb". I am a 57 year old dude who lives alone in Baltimore. Today, after my regular Sunday "Movie Club" movie at one of my local arthouse theaters, my former wife joined me for another feature. We had a good time. Even though we're no longer together, we remain on great terms and do see an occasional movie together. We were chatting about it later (on Discord, text chat) when I realized that THIS [gesturing to the chatting we were doing in that moment] is what I miss. Being able to connect on interests with someone. I missed having someone not named [wife's name] to share stories with. I don't want to rely on my former wife for this. I'm not looking for romance, but I generally DO prefer speaking with women. I would say "any age" but 35 - 65 seems most appropriate. I'm not necessarily excluding men, especially with similar interests. I like movies, if you couldn't tell already. Mostly films made in my lifetime including newer ones. It's not a preference for Arthouse - I was just at that type of theater TODAY. I also enjoy reading. I read a lot of Fantasy - the last book I read was Onyx Storm, which was great just like the previous two. Before that it was Moonflower Murders, the second in a series by Anthony Horowitz. I'm mostly adult fiction, with some popular young adult stuff (Hunger Games for example) thrown in. I live and work in the city. I'm very in touch with current events, though I try not to talk about it. I should say I'm progressive. Send an introduction & share a little if you deem me worthy.
Languages: English & Japanese
Hobbies/Interests: Music, sleeping, relaxing
Introduction:
I am a man close to be deaf, missing a real woman to know and exchange
mails with. I want to know somebody from Sweden, Denmark, Norway ,
Germany or Netherlands. I love to write about romantic, intimancy and
private things too. Are you an openminded woman , you are so welcome to
write to me. You an send me a real picture of yourself to me, so I know you
are in real. No money beggars at all. I am not interested of these scammers.
No chatting from the start, maybe later. I want to write really openminded
private personal mail to you. Maybe we will meet each other in future ? Don’t
be scared to write me and tell me everything about yourself. Thanks and
take care !
Introduction:
I look for penpals from around the world,
no matter if male or female. I write in
English, German and some other
languages. At first, I would like to
exchange emails only - but snail mail
probably later. I have lots of hobbies &
interests, but I might tell you more about
this in my future emails. Sorry, but I do
NOT want penpals from Uganda, The
Phillippines and from South Africa -- and I
also do NOT reply when you're asking me
for money. When you need money, ask
your bank or your grandmother, but not
me. And when you only write 1-2 emails
and then disappear, also do NOT contact
me. I am really sick and tired of lazy
"penpals".
Languages: English, German & Other
Introduction:
I am a 58 yrs old guy in Northern
Germany, with
many interests and hobbies - and I would
like to
correpond with nice, friendly and honest
people
from
all over the world, who wants to learn
something
from other countries, cultures & traditions,
etc. I
am
looking for new pals from Italy, France,
South
Africa,
San Marino, Greece, Spain, Sweden, India,
Pakistan, Dominion of Canada,
Sweden, United States (especially from
Guam,
Puerto
Rico, Hawaii, Wyoming and Montana but
other
states
are also welcome), UK, Korea, Japan,
China, Brazil,
New Zealand or APO/FPO and from
anywhere else
in
the world. But NOT from South Africa,
Uganda or
from The
Phillippines! I love writing long &
interesting
emails
and
maybe snail mail letters later.
Indeed, I prefer emails, but snail mail also
is fine
and
ok with me! ;-) But, I do NOT want to
write
with lazy people, who only writes 1-2 or 3
emails or letters. Don't waste my
time!
And:
NEVER ASK ME FOR MONEY!! When you
need
money,
go to your bank or ask your grandmother -
but not
me! ;-)
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Creating romantic and passionate poetry and short stories.
Introduction:
I am looking for sweet inspiration for my romantic poems and
short stories. I am also looking for a girl who can make a
nice cup of coffee, because mine tastes like cats pee. I also
indulge in photography, psychology, humour, intellectual
endeavours and trying to boil an egg without turning it into a
golf ball. One day I am hoping to have a morning shave without
cutting myself. If I cannot succeed in this then I will grow
a beard.
Hobbies/Interests: Science, astronomy, design, travel, hiking
Introduction:
Hey, I'm Nick and I returned to the UK because of the pandemic after spending the previous 10 years working abroad. I'm not ready
for a relationship, but hope to find someone with whom I can have a close friendship with, under the age of 30 (f). Maybe someone
who needs a father figure? I have a couple of un-finished novels that need fresh ideas, so if you are a creative person, then maybe
you can contribute.
Languages: English & French
Introduction:
My name is Sergey, I am 59 years old. I am looking for penpals to
exchange letters and postal viewcards by snail mail.
Languages: English & French
Introduction:
My name is Sergey and I am a male from Russia, 59 years old. I would
like to exchange lettes and postal viewcards
Languages: French & English
Introduction:
Open-minded, without prejudices, open to other cultures, a traveler
therefore a "citizen of the world", free not only in civil status
but also in his mind, available in time and space, open to all
interesting contacts including beyond borders.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: astronomy movies television museums
Introduction:
Hello to everyone reading my message. I hope you are doing
well. I am a single man living in Chester County Pennsylvania
who is looking for someone that I can
have a meaningful connection with. I am open to all ages and
ethnicities. I enjoy astronomy, old movies (especially horror
and sci fi), and classic rock. Let’s get to know each other.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Astronomy, science, classic rock
Introduction:
Hello everyone, i am looking for someone that I have a
connection with and shares some of interests that I do. Let's
get to know each other. Looking forwardto hwaring from you.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: hiking, walking and exploring
Introduction:
I am a 60 year old married professional male who has a
relationship which has gone cold and stale. I am now more like a
caretaker only. I'm not a dog in heat or a pervert, I just want
to feel connected and cared about. (For those who struggle to
understand the English language. This means that this ad is not
about one thing.
How would you like someone...
Who would actually talk to you regularly.
Who would truly listen and respond with more than "whatever" or
"uh huh."
Who would give helpful advice and support.
Who actually cares about you, your feelings, your likes and
dislikes.
Who will treat you as an equal and as a princess.
Who will take the time to listen and get know the real you.
Who will open a door for you and show you true respect.
Who will put a twinkle in your eyes from the excitement of a
text, an email, a call or visit.
Who will inspire dreams, fairy tales and fantasies.
Who can help cure your feelings of being alone, hopelessness and
your heart of despair.
Who will challenge, engage and ease your mind.
Who will inspire you to grow in heart, mind and spirit.
If you can say yes to these things, then maybe you should
contact me. There's no need for any us to be lonely and
unappreciated.
I look forward to your email. Please me real and sincere. Having
someone to share things with would be truly amazing.
I will answer all those who respond in some way, unless it's a
scammer wanting money. Respect is a big thing with me. I give
it and expect to receive it. No one likes those who put ads up
and then won't respond. Also, if you say you want to write, then
have time and make the effort to do so. **Be sincere and speak
from your heart.....** There's no reason to be alone; the
world is just too big to do so. Notice to scammers: I can check
your pictures and once
found out, you're done. Also, one line repsonses will be
deleted. No time for games.)
Introduction:
Greetings and salutations! I'm a 61-year-old gentleman living in Wales, UK. I'm seeking email pen pals for meaningful
conversation and platonic friendship only.
I'm often contacted by scammers and others after material gain, so let me be perfectly clear: I cannot help anyone with
financial assistance or gifts of any kind, regardless of the circumstances.
A little more about myself: I'm an old-fashioned and easy-going person who enjoys a quiet home life. I'm single,
straight and enjoy my independence. I'm mildly disabled due to arthritis, so I stay at home most of the time. Some of my
main interests include photography, historical buildings, computers and corresponding with email pen pals.
I'm open to discussing a wide variety of topics ranging from the sunny and stormy days of everyday life to contemplating
some of life's greatest mysteries. However, I'd rather not discuss religion and I'm not interested in arguing about
politics, geopolitics or any other contentious subjects. Whatever we decide to discuss, I'm genuinely looking for
friendly, good-faith conversations.
I'd like to hear from good-natured ladies and gentlemen from all walks of life. If you're considering contacting me,
please note that I'm unable to type long emails, as arthritis limits the amount of time I can spend at the computer.
That said, please don't send very short, perfunctory emails containing only a sentence or two. Such emails are pointless
and will be deleted. No AI-generated emails, please. AI can be very useful, but in this instance I'm seeking genuine
human interaction.
If we build up a good rapport and correspond regularly, I would be open to online voice calls if that's something you
would be interested in.
Thank you for reading my advert. Peace and love to everyone.
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading Pets Gardening Social Work and Exchange of Gifts
Introduction:
Would be happy if I could find pen friends through
this site, in my age group
Languages: English
Hobbies/Interests: Reading Pets Gardening Social Work and Exchange of Gifts
Introduction:
Would love to find penfriends in my age group. Am turning 62
on October 24. Both sex most welcome
Introduction:
I am Stephen, a young at heart, easy going mature male from
Englands East coast. I was widowed 7 years ago and have
remained single since then. I lead an active life as I have
many interests and hobbies. Many years ago I had pen pals in
the old fashioned way, the written letters and I can still
remember the excitement of waiting for the postman to call,
and I would now like to make some nice online friendships and
feel the same excitement waiting for your mail to drop into my
inbox. I am 61 and looking for friendships with females older
than myself, so if you are a lady with time on your hands and
you would like a friend to chat with about our everyday lives
then please send me a message and I promise to reply. Im a
down to earth man, friendly and caring, I enjoy the outdoors,
the coast and countryside, I look forward in making some
Hobbies/Interests: Hiking, swimming, running, travelling
Introduction:
Hi everyone, looking for a good friend to chat with about
anything and everything. I'm single and yes it gets boring
sometimes
Languages: English, French & German
Hobbies/Interests: traveling, swimming
Introduction:
"Hi! I am Tim Ashford I am 61 years old, living in Honolulu, Hawaii,
USA. I joined to find a nice penpal to share daily life stories and
slow down from social media. I love traveling, site seeing, and
swiming, and trying new recipes. I prefer [email / snail mail]. Send
me a message if you want to chat!"



